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Genderama..

Will it ever change back to normal?..

Unfortunately, Nickonian just about wraps up the general situation about relationships, speaking even wiser than he may have originally intended, but it does definitely appears to be the general consensus.
All this attitude is solely due to feminists and their interference and their introduction of the "War between the Sexes", with this sole purpose in mind. You have to remember that this was their original aim to begin with and one they have actually stated as being a goal, an original aim. They planned to destroy families and separate them as they have realised, as all other socialist and communists have in the past, that the family will and is the breeding ground against their hateful and dysfunctional doctrine. Families have to deal with reality on a daily basis, not go off onto some fancy delusional social justice fantasy. Feminists were well aware that while the family existed, they would never be able to introduce their hate doctrine and get the support they demanded. Single mothers are a lot easier to manipulate as they rely on governments for handouts..

Meanwhile, we have millions of people suffering the consequences which would not have happened if feminism was not given the support and funding it has received..

Have they changed their attitude from that at all. How could they as they are the one who planned it all right from the beginning and it is going precisely to plan. Meanwhile we have that endless, legitimate observations by people who have been affected by it and one wonders where exactly you stand in your current situation. How affected have you been by this hate movement that has no issue whatsoever with sacrificing your life on their alter of imaginary social justice..


Nickonian..

I haven't found anybody anyway. I'm way too cynical and picky to begin with. In addition I have a problem with most women because they split you. You are either friendzoned or in the attractive box. I refuse to marry for a "sex partner", what is the point in that when you can get sex a million other cheap ways? If you want the position, you have to offer more than sex...

I also find that most women I've experienced are flip-floppish and don't have solid morals but instead have a belief system that follow a social system (church, liberal, etc). Most women also think it is okay to emotionally manipulate you and then claim gaslighting when you point it out. In addition most women drive and motivate their men to be the perfect "man" they currently are not. I've spent so much time around entitled women I know much of what to look for (alot of it isn't obvious either)... Big stamp of NO!

I know many Men exhibit these bad qualities too but I'm talking about wife potential here

My list is simple yet impossible. I want somebody with Integrity, Accepting/open-minded, non abusive, and grounded in a personal moral system. I guess Integrity and grounded in a personal moral system are similar enough but either is extremely hard to find especially in women. Most women follow a governed moral system and when they are grounded in it often are controlling (ever met a church lady?) and sometimes abusive to exhort that control. To find somebody grounded in what she thinks yet not close minded is even harder....

I know good women exist but they are hard to find around here (and harder if single). Most think they are God's gift to men and need to be worshiped as such. Too bad they didn't read Genesis 2:18 to back up that idea :P

Yep I'm going to die famous and alone...
H/T to Feckless for the title..

Wassadamatterwidu..



We can always recognise a good lie when we see it and here is one for you..
According to the research, men spend 81 minutes a day on grooming — cleansing, toning and moisturising, shaving, styling hair and choosing clothes, while women have their beauty regime down and get their hair, clothes and make-up done in less than 75 minutes. So beat that, boys!
One does wonder how anyone can make any statement that is so far fetched, so vacant of any truth, that they don't turn into stone or at least be embarrassed about making it. It's akin to speaking to someone who looks into your eyes and tries to convince you that you are an alien, without any proof or evidence. Someone who can make a statement with such ease and confidence that you have to wonder how or what is working inside that skull in order to make such an obvious, downright lie work and still be comfortable and behave like it was a normal thing to say. It has and does confuse me completely but as this condition is a severe case of "lying feminist syndrome", a condition inherited with further education, the truth on any given situation is obviously irrelevant..

So we have the situation where scoring meaningless, trivial points on any given issue is the order of the day. One must wonder what the outcome or benefit really is apart from trying to elevate oneself to some delusional level. I found this entire article, astounding, not in a good way. Totally inane and useless, let alone having any relevance at all. But here it is..

This actually hit toxic mode or should that be rabid, on the web and ofcourse on the permanently offended social network, Twitter. Rabid finger messaging with non-engaged brain..

On the one side we have the endless remarks about women taking their time getting ready and they mostly state "So What, It will be worth it", just like any good narcissist would but then we have a counter claim that ensures a diametrically opposed view..

Cheech!..shoot me..

Mars View
It’s a topic that can be debated upon with renewed enthusiasm every time it’s broached. It may be a bit of a generalisation to say that women take forever to get ready, but when comedian Varun Thakur was waiting for his friend and tweeted that he was sick of waiting saying that ‘women take forever’, it caught on like wildfire online. In less than 45 minutes prominent Twitter users from all over India had picked it up and were tweeting about it. There were over 40 tweets a second for 30 minutes, as the topic trended globally. This led to Varun along with his fellow mates, Karan Talwar and Satan Bhagat to start a Facebook page — Women Take Forever. Needless to say, it saw numerous hits within minutes.
But the question remains pertinent? Do women really take forever? According to 22-year-old student Adarsh Khurana, they do.
“This might sound funny, but I actually broke up with my girlfriend because she would never, ever turn up on time. Whether it was a movie, going dancing or dining out, I’d wait under her building for hours before she’d show up. No amount of talking to her would help the situation. We started having ugly spats. Eventually I was too frustrated to sort it out and called it quits with her.”
A few celebs even got creative with their messages online. As VJ Ayushmann Khurrana, put it, “We’ll solve the Kashmir issue #beforewomengetready.” While VJ Jose Covaco says, “Parliament will pass the Lokpal bill #beforewomengetready”, actor Kainaz Motivala jokes, “Adnan Sami will get a six pack #beforewomengetready.”
But jokes apart, most guys unanimously agree that there's no permanent solution to the ‘problem’. And offering one doesn’t seem like a feasible option. “I don’t want to get snapped at. So I know my tricks. I always keep a 40-minute leeway just to be on the safe side. So if there’s a concert to attend or a movie to catch, I simply tamper with the time,” says Anubhav Mahajan, a 26-year-old corporate professional. Does it work? “Oh yeah, she’s dot on time!” he chuckles.
Venus View
Women however severely beg to differ on this. Celebs even have their own quirky take on the topic, as actor Konokona Sen Sharma says, “Men still wouldn’t have bathed. #BeforeWomenGetReady.” VJ Miss Malini quips, “Well I don’t see them complaining after they see the results!”
Ayesha Goyal, a 27-year-old NGO worker, shoots back, “If all the women in the world were spending time in front of the mirror, you would’ve probably never found their husbands at work. They’d be happily snoring away! It’s such a silly notion and a clichéd generalisation about women. We can apply our favourite lipstick even on the go, and save time, while the prudish men who claim such things can only gape at us!”
Most young women also feel that taking time to get ready depends largely on the event one is attending. “If it’s a wedding, you obviously can’t expect us to step out in two minutes. So, just as we can slip into our jeans and tees in a jiffy, we also like to spend that extra five minutes pinning orchids to our hair. And honestly, once you’re ready and the guys steal a glance at you, they don’t really seem to mind very much,” giggles Charmi Mehta, a 24-year-old writer.
Interestingly, a recent study shows that on an average, men spend more time getting ready to go out as compared to their female counterparts. According to the research, men spend 81 minutes a day on grooming — cleansing, toning and moisturising, shaving, styling hair and choosing clothes, while women have their beauty regime down and get their hair, clothes and make-up done in less than 75 minutes. So beat that, boys!

Why is it so hard to find a decent woman?

Toys Imitating Life..
One may well ask, as that question surfaces more often than the female equivalent of "where have all the good men gone". The difference is ofcourse that as far as women are concerned, you don't exist if you're not wearing something with a designer label they can identify. With men it's physical to begin with for first contact but from there it goes via the "has it got any brains" department and also the "is it full of itself" analysis begins as soon as she picks up another call on the phone (when that happens I am gone, done that in the past, will do that again every time unless I am told it's an emergency)..
The women I tend to pick up for one nighter’s at nightclubs are skanky girls who are dumb, boring and obsessed with facebook and their own popularity/ego, they are not datable women but they are useful for me to get my rocks off.
In most cases the casual sex mentality appears to be the only response from today's female, they now have their own debt and are willing members of the 9-5 grind, so it does demonstrate precisely where and on what they spend their earned dollars (I was going to say hard earned but didn't want to lie). It would also go without saying that women are that turned on by Facebook, that it's growth could solely depend on their persistent and endless mutterings of minutiae, fifty times a day; either via phone or computer terminal. I have yet to speak to any female who does not have a Facebook page..

So the guy poses the question and at 23 years old, he is already disillusioned by the type of females available, making this an interesting argument. As of late it has been the unrelenting "where have the men gone" blathering or worse still, the "man up" finger pointing by delusional members of the feminist movement or some unrecognisable elitist wondering why they have their girlfriends complaining at forty, that they have not trapped a sucker yet or maybe it was Auntie Jill, the feminist, crying on the back porch where she's complaining about being that exact issue at forty, got no hubby or kids as her life ebbs towards menopause and the cats are malting all over the furniture, that must be so disappointing. So what does one do besides writing an article to try and change the upcoming norm where the lads are of the opinion that sharing a flat with a mate or living on your own, not having to deal with that menstrual cycle every month, no hysterics to deal with, can have a beer when you get home after a hard day's slog and play a couple of hours of Halo 2 without someone bitching and demanding your attention, would be a pretty damn clear option to take..

Where did I put that tinny..

Link to article..

This is Not Funny..Really..

The previous posts contained comments from the opposition (feminasties) and stressed, after their usual bastardisation of the truth, that this site was, as far as they were concerned, humouress, funny..

Let's tank up for another false rape claim..
Personally I have no idea how they could possibly derive that opinion. I mentioned this to a friend of mine and he stated that he was "effin disgusted", my brain screamed "don't go down there" but I asked anyway and he told a joke that was akin to the actions undertaken in movies like "American Pie 1 or 2"(have not seen it yet, not that interested) where something happened which I assumed was some kind of demonstrated food fetish. Another example that came to mind as well was Sager's "Moving out today" where there was some mention of what a border did with bread. My mate is more conversant with the english language than I. Using the toff's version of effin never crossed my mind as he knows how english is spoke and is even capable of putting the full stops in all the right places. But I was just appalled at the thought of this site being entertaining and comical especially entertaining to the fems, it is just appalling, how anyone could even suggest that humour was part and parcel of this site is just incomprehensible and outlandish. I am appalled I tell you, It's well, appalling..

Now where was I again..

Oh dear, big ain't BBW, it's just big..
Having read this "wanted" or "for sale for nefarious deeds" or "come and get it" advertisement, I  would be of the opinion that it's going to be a handful on the best of days. Like the saying goes "don't matter how great she looks, someone else has put up with her shit before" and that gents is exactly the outcome of this possible future affaire. Someone escaped and now she wants another replacement, someone else to feel the pain, I personally do not take one bit of notice of what's written in these ads when it's about previous history but I would take notice of the demands and holy mackerel, has this one got a ton of them, with quite a few to spare..

I was going to make a list of demands she has requested but I will leave it up to you to decide what a fantastic inclusion she would make to your life as long as you don't turn up ofcourse..
I have been of the opinion that women have generally overpriced their goods in a flat market but it is  obvious that not all are paying attention. They would be better off waiting for the bulls to return..



Update..


If you’re a man considering marriage, there are some statistics you should know before you go ring shopping.
Today, more than 50% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce.
What many people don’t know is that women initiate approximately 70% of all divorces. Interesting, since men as a gender are the ones who are typically shamed for being commitment phobic and not willing to settle down.



Marriage and Divorce: A Rigged Game for Men

Finding a Foreign Wife Or How to Get Conned..

I have received one of these emails and found it in the spam folder which would make anyone suspicious. She was ofcourse a lovely, even stunning Russian lass who would volunteer to furnish real life content to all my wet dreams and she ofcourse was appropriately dressed in a negligee, suspenders and lying on a bear rug. I figure that any female who looked like that must have an ulterior motive as she would be beating the guys off daily..

So Anastasha told me how lonely she was and how she was looking for love in all the wrong places. How she lived in the country with her grandmother and had to battle daily to scratch a living (the bear rug would pay for six months supply of food) and that life was so hard. Now what could possibly be the motive I did not have to ask myself..
Money is ofcourse, that sexual lubricant that appears to work as it has always done and it would appear that the general female population of the western world has that same itch that refuses to heal or reduce and only one salve can fix..

Finding a Foreign Wife – Internet Foreign Dating, Does it Work?

26.08.2011 |

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russian-dating-scams-online-bridesIf you’re an older gent like me, maybe you’ve also decided that dating is tiring. It’s also a big waste of money.
American women seem mostly to be materialistic. If you don’t own a home and a relatively new car, or can’t provide them with “stuff,” you’re out. It’s “Take me, show me, buy me.”
Nowadays, girlfriends seem like no more than expensive pets. At least a pet doesn’t nag or cheat on you. They don’t eat as much, and don’t mind eating in and watching a DVD instead of going out to dinner and a movie. Of course, a pet isn’t satisfying in other ways a girlfriend would be.
So, as I started to come to the conclusion a pet wasn’t enough. But, what to do?
I began to consider foreign cultures for dating.
Now I know that even for close-by women, Yahoo personals are a gamble. The photos are usually old. You’re also lucky if a woman doesn’t turn out to be a guy! Yahoo does no screening for scammers. If someone complains, they might cut off the account, but it’s virtually impossible to call or email a human at Yahoo to complain. Yahoo doesn’t dirty its hands by direct contact with their dirty old customers.
About this time, I got an email from an attractive Russian lady via Yahoo. I started to really search for any pitfalls of foreign dating on-line. It seemed no more risky than any other on-line dating. Just be cautious about sending anyone money, the sites warned.
This lady, Natasha, seemed quite safe and a strong possibility. She already had a ticket to the US, and had friends here. She said she was only checking along her proposed travel route for people to meet.
The only question mark, at first, was that she was 28 and interested to meet me, a 60 year old man. However, she was just talking friendship. European cultures don’t stigmatize age as much as we do. So, I thought, why not?
We began to correspond daily. She seemed to like my sense of humor and appreciate my dry outlook on things in general. She seemed well educated, too. Her sexy but tasteful photos didn’t hurt, either.
The anti-scam sites, such as www.russian-scam.org had lists of warning signs. They especially emphasized not to believe anyone who asked for money or proclaimed love after a few emails. They also warned against much younger women interested in older men. They admit that a difference of 15 years isn’t unusual for even a very classy Russian woman. So, I was on my toes, but not very suspicious.
Well, at least I was primed for the other foot to fall. The day “Natasha” was supposed to leave for the US, there was a problem. She had stayed in contact, saying she’d made it to Moscow for the flight here. However, surprise,surprise, she’d lost her US visa. She needed about $900 to quickly get another one. Even naive I knew by this time a visa was not nearly so expensive.
I started browsing the photos of known scammers on russian-scam.org and – sure enough: there was “Natasha’s” photo; with another name, of course! She had several names, in fact.
The site’s notes on her showed many, many men had sent her money to replace her “lost” visa or obtain medical care for her mother. One of her photos showed a passport and visa with yet another name!
I decided to have some fun with Natasha. I sent her an email expressing my concern at her plight. I told her “I think I have the solution. I’ll get back to you later today.” She begged me to hurry, as she’d miss her flight.
Later, I did send her another email: “Natasha, here’s the solution to all your problems! I found a passport and visa on line with your photo and other needed information already on it! All you have to do is print this out and show it to the authorities. It will prove you already have the required documents!”
I attached a pdf of the phony paperwork I’d found on line. Do I need to tell you she never responded again?
The only sad part is the long list of men she’d scammed before. Oh, and the fact that I was still without a girlfriend.
I continued researching. I got another email. This Ukrainian lady, Ekaterina, sounded nice and very educated. She was closer to my age, and seemed to eagerly answer my emails promptly and with a lot of detail. The only thing that puzzled me was that the answers seemed a bit stilted. Ekaterina seemed to key off a word I’d use in a sentence, but reply to it obliquely. Well, that could be the translator, or her own limited English. She certainly spoke better English than I did Russian.
About this time I found out that there are computer programmers, not all of them Russian, who create “fuzzy logic” programs which can respond to conversation. The programs troll email addresses, until they get a response. The program itself can pick up on gender, general age range, education, and other factors. They respond in kind, according to a formula.
By a certain point, the program will become “infatuated” with the man at the other end… I’m guessing they also are programmed to work on a woman respondent.
This is what the scam sites warn about: Be wary of someone getting too romantic too early. This is just not done, even by a desperate Russian woman, as long as she has, or wants to display some amount of class.
Once a respondent goes past this point, the human scammer takes over, weaving a web to get money. There is even a Russian name for Americans who fall for the program: “Frogs.”
A big tip-off to a scam is a request to send money via Western Union. No other way will do for a scammer. He can pick up the money at any office, and leave no trace. Western Union’s site even has a stern warning about this. Such cheating must be wide-spread… and WU must have been sued a few times.
So, I was duly warned.
Sure enough, the conversation turned to money. By this time I was bored, so I just gave a rude brush-off answer, calling the programmer by his presumed name: “Boris, Ivan, or whoever you really are.”

Sex for Money: It's the Way it Is..

Why am I not surprised ?

Feminists have always promoted shagging as some type of recommended behaviour that should be allowed at random without limitation or indeed have any limits attached to it. Probably explains why most of the feminist mangina sites have little tags like "I support Porn" or "I support BDSM" as they would heartily agree that the promotion of free sex on demand would allow them unlimited access especially if there is a feminist female involved. Brainwashing does apparently have it positive side..

What surprises me the most is the lack of information concerning  sexually transmitted diseases of all types. Those nasty disease like HIV or those others that munch your body at random. Not really something you want to be told after a night of debauchery with some slut feminist ( they promote themselves to be sluts now) willingly spreads her legs for some horizontal tango..

More gender equality leads to more sex, global study shows
 WASHINGTON – Equality leads to more sex. 
That's the gist of a new study about the sexual marketplace that used global data and found there's more sex in countries with higher gender equality than in those with less.
The study is part of a big-picture look at sexual behaviors worldwide using "sexual economics," in which supply and demand are key elements.
It's a "notoriously unromantic theory," said Roy Baumeister of Florida State University in Tallahassee Sunday at the American Psychological Association meeting here.
In his presentation, "Sexual Economics: A Research-Based Theory of Sexual Interactions, or Why the Man Buys Dinner," Baumeister, a psychologist, explained how applying economic principles helps understand people's sexual decision-making, especially when they're just beginning a relationship.
"Women's sexuality has a kind of value that men's sexuality does not," he says. "Men will basically exchange other resources with women to have sex, but the reverse doesn't work. Women … can trade sex for attention, for grades, for a promotion, for money, as in prostitution or sex with a celebrity."
So I guess my previous question on a previous post has been answered, "why do women demand men pay for dinner" is because she needs some confirmation that if she is giving away pussy, someone has to pay, something, anything. That is ofcourse after she has decided that she was going to have sex with you after the first five seconds of meeting you. That precondition very rarely changes..

Interesting, as it is something that I think we already knew but could not quite explain, why was it such an important demand that even hardcore feminasties demanded it, even though the chance of anyone lining up to dating any of them was about as slim as someone lining up for free lobotomies even though such an operation would benefit feminists..
Supply and demand rule, so whichever sex is more scarce has more power. The theory focuses on heterosexual interactions only. When women outnumber men (as on many college campuses today) there's more competition among women for those guys, says Mark Regnerus, an associate professor of sociology at the University of Texas-Austin
He addressed that in the book he co-wrote, Premarital Sex in America, out earlier this year.
Regnerus says Baumeister's theory of sexual economics was a key element. "It's a perspective through which to understand sexual relationships and sexual behavior," he says.
Regnerus' research attributes the rise of the "hookup" culture on campus to the fact that there are so many more women in college.
He says Baumeister and Kathleen Vohs "wrote the key work on the subject" in 2004. Because a woman's sexuality has a value to men, a man who wanted sex typically had to give her something of value, such as a marriage proposal
So demand at college exceeds supply, interesting. I have not heard any complaints from male students but I do for some unfathomable reason that campus rape is taking place in gigantic proportions according to exaggerating feminists even though the male students are being well serviced. I wonder where they get all that energy from..So, count back a few decades ago and you would understand why there were so many marriages as women were not giving it away free to no one, they were well aware that guys were going to offer the magic license in order to get them into the sheets and procreate as well. Apparently worked out pretty well too, as both parties obviously enjoyed their roles in those situations..

The situation today is full of paranoia and uncertainty as both sexes don't have a bloody clue how to go about meeting and greeting each other as feminists continually keep screwing that part up by their relentless inane demands for more laws and inane commentary about women victimhood and how it's impossible for any female to walk anywhere without (Gasp) being looked at. More laws thanks..
Dating sites are full of women and desperate to attract more males as aging is the main deterrent to a relationship as if everyone is not already well aware of it. The stupidity of divorcing at 40+ appears to be the current hype and trend and relationship death wish, but they do not comprehend that at that age that the admirers are gone and desperate measures need to be taken like facial surgery or a boob job just to compete with the younger women who are also looking at a shrinking market of men who have choosen to go their own way..

If in doubt ?

This fairly typical response that appeared at the Seattle Post Intelligencer website: “Sorry ladies. In the age of PlayStation 3s, 24-hours-a-day sports channels, and free Internet porn, you are now obsolete. All that nagging, whining, and stealing our hard earned cash have finally caught up to you."
Even Hymowitz has a go at explaining the aversion..
Shocked? I wasn t. During the last few years researching this age group, I’ve stumbled onto a powerful underground current of male bitterness that has nothing to do with outsourcing, the Mancession, or any of the other issues we usually associate with contemporary male discontent. No, this is bitterness from guys who find the young women they might have hoped to hang out with entitled, dishonest, self-involved, slutty, manipulative, shallow, controlling—and did I mention gold-digging?

So Who Pays for the Night Out ?..

“Feminists have a hard time finding guys who want to date them,” a classmate in my Social Psychology class expressed this sentiment one day during a discussion on stereotype.
Gee, who would have thought that ?
Not Happening is it..
The argument about who pays for dates arose once again and it does appear to create a lot of discussion which flows either one or the other depending on whether or not you're a women or a feminist. I have been informed lately that women on dating sites go out of their way to state that they are not feminists which says a lot about that movement and how women do not support that hate movement but go out of their way to ensure that there is no doubt that anyone can misconstrue their non-allegiance. They must realise that any suggestion of being associated must be anathema for any female whenever any male is checking out their "look at me" rant page..

Paying for dates is a rather interesting argument as it appears that women as well as feminists (those strong and independent) types demand that men pay where even one feminist claimed that they should because she bothered to turn up which is sufficient excuse for the extortion demand. It would appear that women have gone through the imaginary lists of demands and picked out all the positives and just dropped any item where they would have their ego impinged which ofcourse would be the case if they have to part with any of their money. I suppose they look at it as parting with that new dress, shoes, make-up, massage, boob job, face lift or other nefarious requirements that women indulge in,  As those items or options would not be available if they decided to pay for their own food and Martini..

The hypocrisy is rampant and there for all to witness, they actually make the same income as you and in some cases even make more depending which city you live in. I did a recent post on the habits of women going to bars where they suck in guys to buy them a drink and just simply wander off once they achieve that act of thievery without so much as a backward glance and that is the same attitude women have when they demand you pay for them to free-load a meal and booze at your expense for no particular benefit coming back your way. The question must arise "what's in it for me" and don't tell me it's sparkling conversation or just turning up because that just ain't reason enough..

We have some incomprehensive comments from the feminasties who appear to be incapable of detecting their own hypocrisy or even their own stupidity, like this one..
All these men are plain cheap and I would feel bad for any woman that dates them. I have never paid for a first date...
There you go..
Manipulative, who me ?
This fairly typical response that appeared at the Seattle Post Intelligencer website: “Sorry ladies. In the age of PlayStation 3s, 24-hours-a-day sports channels, and free Internet porn, you are now obsolete. All that nagging, whining, and stealing our hard earned cash have finally caught up to you."
Even Hymowitz has a go at explaining the aversion..
Shocked? I wasn t. During the last few years researching this age group, I’ve stumbled onto a powerful underground current of male bitterness that has nothing to do with outsourcing, the Mancession, or any of the other issues we usually associate with contemporary male discontent. No, this is bitterness from guys who find the young women they might have hoped to hang out with entitled, dishonest, self-involved, slutty, manipulative, shallow, controlling—and did I mention gold-digging?
So there you go and it would appear that when they finally snare some sucker desperate enough to take them out to dinner, they demand he foots the bill even though she would probably have more cash in her pocket than he has..
What goes round comes round ladies. Your ever increasing demands and your compliance to the feminist hate movement has removed you from the heart of any perspective suitor. So rather than complaining about who pays for the meal maybe you should just order that take away in, again..