Showing posts with label little guy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label little guy. Show all posts

Tuesday, November 10, 2015

the sunset series..







The last of our birthday sunsets for the year.  This one seemed to need a whole lot more effort by us all just to leave the house, and there's an obvious mood about these pictures I think.  Dog poo scattered like land mines along the walking track and a shoreline covered in washed up seaweed just adding to the tone of the evening really.

I'm glad we did it though.  Even as we headed home I felt like it was meant to be that way, an honest refection of everything right now.  A bit messy. It can't be magical all of the time, but a chance to wander by the ocean, feel the damp sea mist on your skin and sand under your feet.  Time to breathe. You just have to make those moments happen and enjoy them for what they are.

We're all a bit worn out, a bit snippy and short tempered.  With six weeks left of term and coming to the end of our busiest time of year, frankly, we all just need a break.

It's been a big week of milestones and special family time, too.  Moments to treasure for sure.  I can sense the emotion of it all building in us, in me, and I'm waiting to be able to just let it all go.

We celebrated our little guy turning nine this week.  He had the BEST day, followed by more celebrations throughout the weekend. Those are the greatest birthdays, the ones that seem to go for days.

Nine.  In my mind, time has stood still since the day Olive was born and he was just six.  I feel like he's still six, but he's not and its like I've missed three whole years of his little life.

He'll always be my baby, I know, but nine has just come out of nowhere and to think that he'll be double figures next is mind blowing.

He's almost finished grade three and it has to have been the best year of school for him so far.  The support and encouragement of the most incredible teacher has been extraordinary.  Some people are just born to do what they do, aren't they, we'll be sad not to have him as a teacher next year, but he will have left the most positive and lasting impression on Eddie, one he'll draw on as he grows and always remember.

This little guy of ours, maybe not our baby but still little.  He makes me smile and fills my heart with happy contentment when he creeps up and hugs me from behind, still, he's always done that.  He sits at the dining table and his feet dangle high off the ground, and he has to climb the front gate to be able to open it.

He's affectionate and loving and considerate.  He's still feisty and has a short fuse, but as he grows he's learning to mange it.  He doesn't like it when his temper gets the better of him, but he's trying hard.  Outbursts are few and far between and over pretty quickly these days.

He writes us love letters and tells us how wonderful we are.  He draws constantly, its like a meditation for him and he's really very good.

He loves dinosaurs and lego and batman and spiderman.

We took him to aerodrome on the weekend and he saw a much bigger boy bouncing and climbing walls with effortless skill.  I could see the look in our Eddie's eyes.  Awe.  This guy looked like he could be a real life Peter Parker the way he scaled those walls.  Then I watched on as our little guy, ever so tentatively, tried it himself.  He was too shy and worried people might see him so stopped. Always so worried about what other people might think.  I'm not sure where that insecurity crept in, but I wish he could just believe in himself a little bit more, see what we see, and give it a go.  He would be a natural at those spiderman moves.

Our Eddie.  You're awesome baby boy.  We love you to bits!


thanks to Nick for the pics as always, which for some reason will not align properly in this post..?

Friday, January 17, 2014

home..



this little guy came home after a week at nan and pops.  He loves it there, they all do, but it's been super hot with 40 plus temperatures everyday and I think he is just worn out.

after dinner last night we took a wander down to the beach in the breeze, jumped some waves and cooled our core.  Watching him tentatively step into the water was pure joy.  The smile on his face, the sheer delight at jumping each little wave as they rolled into shore, happy squeals as though it was his first visit to the sea...there's no place like home.


Monday, November 5, 2012

six..


The baby boy is SIX!

Six years ago that little guy came bursting into our world, perfect as can be and cute as a button! Really, he was the most divine little being and we were head over heals in love the moment we set eyes on him.

Birthdays always make me reflect, the boys hang on every word and we laugh as we go through the traditional story telling of the day they were born.  I've said it before, I am convinced that birth stories are a reflection of their individual personalities and who they are today.

This little guy was different to the other two.  The first sign of labour beginning was the exact due date, early in the morning a slight spotting in the shower.  Mum was staying with us, she arrived the day before. I'd been over due with the other two, so we thought there would be plenty of time.  But he's punctual this one, everything is done on time and to perfection.  The day went by slowly, the odd contraction here and there, lots of cups of tea and sitting on the sunny deck.

I was so mentally prepared for the birth of this baby, I wanted to experience every moment, and was completely in touch with every breath, every movement, I could feel my body getting ready. I wanted to keep things as normal as possible for our other boys, so I still took the big boy off to kinder and picked him up as usual.  Mum kept our very busy 2yr old entertained, and he kept her distracted.

Hubby was working locally, just waiting for the call, and by dinner time we called him.  Off to the hospital I went. Upon arrival the midwives decided I looked way too good to be in labour (yes, I put on some lippy and fixed my hair, I wanted to feel good doing this I was completely in the zone), they examined me and said I was hours away, maybe even days, and that I'd be best back at home where I could relax.

My heart was telling me otherwise, I knew this baby was close, but home we went.  The look on my poor mum's face when we returned home was filled with worry and concern.  She knew too.

I climbed into bed, the contractions ramped up very quickly and within 40 minutes I knew I had to get back to the hospital, quick!

In the car, frantically driving back to the hospital, I could feel his head.  He was born within 8 minutes of stepping through the hospital doors.

To this day, when he makes up his mind to do something, he does it.  There's no faffing about, no procrastinating. He's determined and head strong, he has a temper you wouldn't wish for anyone to bare the brunt of, and he has the kindest heart, the most loving adoring personality.  His brother's are his best friends, they are his world.  He is witty, clever and capable of anything he puts his mind to, but you don't dare try to help, he's fiercely independent.

We love you to bits beautiful Eddie boy.  Happy 6th Birthday my darling!

Friday, May 25, 2012

melting moments...

when the little guy says..

"You would have loved being in our music class today Mum, we sang a song that sounded so beautiful it made tears come in my eyes..."

Oh my melting heart!

Sunday, April 1, 2012

broken..


He did it, he broke me.

The little guy, for all his gorgeousness broke me down.  He is the most unbelievably strong willed little person I've ever known.  Nothing works on him like it did on the others.  He pushes and he pushes, he's relentless.  He knows, always, that the outcome is not going to be in his favour, we've never given in to his tantrums, bad behaviour has never been rewarded.  He always ends up missing out and loosing privilages, yet he just keeps on pushing.

It is getting a tiny bit better.  These moments are fewer & often shorter, so hopefully he's growing out of them altogether, oh how I hope he is!

I know you have to pick your battles, but I feel torn here. I can't just accept this kind of behaviour for the sake of peace & quiet, surely that's not going to benefit him out there in the real world.

It started at bed time, I could see where it was headed early on, I could have gone to him, soothingly, catering to his unreasonable demands, it would all have been avoided if I had.  Hubby's away for a few days, it helps when we have each other to take turns dealing with this.  On and on he went, then suddenly snap, I lost it. Lost my temper.  Of course the entire situation just escalated from there, of course it did!  Tears, anger, yelling & banging.  

In the end no one got what they wanted and nothing was achieved.  

I didn't sleep.  He wakes up perfectly happy ready to start a new day, no mention of the night before, while I lie there exhausted, flat, and well, just broken. 

I got up made pancakes, like Daddy usually does on the weekend, but there was no love in those pancakes I tell you!  I sat,had my brekky, trying to work out how I get passed this like he does, having a sulky muma isn't helpful and I can feel the atmosphere in our home.

Today's a new day. 

Today he's been his lovely, gorgeous self (most of the time).  Affectionate, considerate, funny.  Playing beautifully with his brothers, constantly sneaking up and wrapping his arms tight as can be around me.  He's adorable..today.


Friday, September 23, 2011

enjoying time...

so this little guy is my baby, growing up way too quick... 
while the sun shines and it's just him & me, I'm reminded of how lucky I am to have had this time... 
time to enjoy him, to play with him, to teach him... 
to get to know him, to watch him explore life & to learn... 
to be there for him... 
and to make countless capes & masks for him... 
and his friends...

It hasn't all been sunshine & smiles, he's been perhaps the most challenging of our three boys, in fact I've written several posts on the challenges of raising this little guy.  We often say if he was born first he may have been our one & only! But he is as adorable as he is horrid (perhaps even more adorable as he gets older), he is clever, hilariously funny, fiercely determined, a perfectionist & he wants to know all about everything right now.  He is so in love with his Dad, his brothers & his Muma.  How lucky we are to have him, and how blessed I am to have this time...  

Visit the lovely Lioness Lady for more grateful posts this weekend.

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

a few random thoughts...

how quickly the weekends fly by...

it's nice to be greeted bright & early in the morning by a very  handsome & cheerful tradie arriving to put up the scafold..

work on the roof begins.  Our 6yr old says, obviously impressed by the enormity of the scaffolding, how great our house is going to look when they are finished, when sadly we won't even know anything has been done to look at it, but at least we won't flood anymore..

interesting how the white towels are always the ones to be taken to clean up after a triathlon..

how sweet it is to be told by the little guy countless times in a day 'I love you' with kisses all the way up my arm & down again, and that I am the best mum ever because I do a u turn and say 'weeee' as I go..

funny little emails from gorgeous friends that I don't see nearly enough of, looking forward to catching up in the holidays..

wishing my mum and dad lived closer so they could be a part of the random everyday life, it's been way too long since we've seen them..
now time to get on with the day.  I have stock to deliver, opshop treasure calling to me from the boot of my car waiting for my attention, and a mountain of washing that may never dry in this humidity...

Monday, January 31, 2011

point & shoot...

my littlest man...
Despite the extraordinary heat outside yesterday, I was comfortably sitting inside, in the cool crocheting like a woman possessed.  My head was in a spin.  Every time I'd start something I'd have another idea & start on something else.  This is a picture of our little guy, loving his new neck warmer...for another day perhaps...

point & shoot @ fat mum slim...

Thursday, November 4, 2010

my creative space & a birthday...

Our baby is 4 today!  My goodness how time goes by way too fast.  I really do remember every detail of his dramatic entry into this world as though it were just yesterday.  I'm convinced that the story of our children's births is a direct reflection of their personality, I'm sure of it!! We laugh as we remember each of their births, all different stories and how extraordinarily it resembles who they are...

So we're off to have some birthday fun, and in a quiet moment, should there be one, I will work the hook a little on my softie for Mirabel...

I must share the birthday boys extra special birthday dinner request...Pumpkin Soup & Seed Bread!!
How funny is that, his brothers are mortified...

Skip on over to Kootoyoo to share in some more "creative" creative spaces...

Saturday, October 30, 2010

grateful...

excuse the quality of this picture taken on my phone..
Today I am grateful for time spent pottering about op-shops with my littlest.  We could (and do) spend hours just hanging out here...

Take a visit over to Maxabella's and join in...

Monday, August 23, 2010

at my house...

it's been a busy week at our house with hubby interstate, birthday parties galore & all the usual running around.  It was nice to have the weekend arrive, to head out for breaky Saturday morning, off to vote at school, another party, and a movie night on the couch...
The weather was stunning yesterday. So lovely to open up all the doors & windows, to have the sun shinning down on our skin, thawing us out...

and today I'm taking it easy (once the shoppings done) we plan to head outside & enjoy what's left of this winter warmth...
and flying planes...

I hope everything is great at your place. Pop over to Buttons By Lou Lou to join in...

Monday, August 16, 2010

at my house...

After a cold weekend completely indoors, the sun is shining, the boys are off to school, hubby's off to work & it's just me & the little guy.  I'm feeling like these days at home with him are suddenly, very quickly coming to an end.  Okay, so I still have another year & a bit, I needn't be so dramatic, but in the scheme of things, of 9 years at home with children, it's nearly over...
So, I'm going to enjoy these sweet moments, where it's just the two of us.  When he runs up from behind me & kisses my back, when he hugs my legs & tells me he loves me as I mop up his spills, when he invites me to tea or a cuddle on the couch, when he tells me my pyjamas look beautiful, that I make a yummy dinner, and my favourite "how about we go get a coffee & go to the op shop", love it!  So, at my house, I'm enjoying treasured moments... 

What's on at your house? Visit Lou Lou's to join in...

Thursday, August 12, 2010

a picnic for two...

I was invited to a picnic with my little guy today... 
icecream, lots of tea, cake & sausages, mmmm!
I love these precious moments...

Monday, July 19, 2010

point and shoot...

Apparently,we got lucky winning 'Donkey' in a competition that I seriously do not remember entering!
Where do you put that!!!?

Have fun with 'point & shoot' at Fat Mum Slims... 

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

tuckered out...

The holidays have all been a bit too much for this little man...
all tuckered out!

Friday, June 4, 2010

out and about...

The littlest superhero & I out for a walk in this gorgeous winter sunshine...


To play along with this fun new meme, pop on over to Raising Boys...

Friday, April 23, 2010

One last hoorah...maybe...

The weather has been amazing for this time of year.  Gorgeous summery days.  I think we may have just scraped in one last fabulous beach day.  The weather was stunning, the water crystal clear with perfect rolling waves, drawing in the sand...
 'gobbles' - essential head wear for the superhero...
..and then this...
Incredible black storm clouds rolled in & hovered above for a little while before opening up & dumping pouring rain at 3.30, right on cue for school pick up...
Could this finally have been our last summery beach day for the season? I think so. I'm glad were able to enjoy it while it lasted...

Friday, March 26, 2010

A Ferry Ride...

We thought we'd make the most of the perfect weather yesterday, taking a trip on the ferry across to Sorrento for their famous vanilla slice...well worth the trip, heavenly, they never disappoint...
these goggles were an essential travel item, apparently...

a little concerned about being out at sea & chased by sharks...

safe and sound on the Sorrento foreshore...

this made it all worthwhile...

satisfaction guaranteed...

And then...
then some frolicking friends joined us on the way home!

Sadly, the school boys missed out, I think we may need to keep this one quiet...