I have a question for you guys.... maybe a "touchy" question because it deals with MONEY (eeek!!)
Have you ever thrown a bridal shower?
How much money are you expected to spend on throwing one of these things?
The reason I ask? Well... I volunteered to co-throw a shower for a friend. However, the person I am working with is going CRAZY with suggestions for what I thought was going to be a nice, quiet, LITTLE shower.
She is wanting to rent a huge tent for the backyard, rent tables/chairs, cater it, have a bartender with a FULL bar, and Lord knows what else...
Don't you think that is a little much?
Maybe I am just used to SMALL showers -- you know... a cake....some presents...usually at someone's house... a few decorations... play a few games...
Did I mention this party is being thrown in the country in a backyard? I mean, think FARM party....cows, pigs, horses are the closest neighbors... I didn't expect some big fancy schmancy thing-a-ma-gig
Am I crazy? How do I tame down this party?
What is normal? How much do normal people spend on these things? I don't want to sound like a cheapo but I am not going bankrupt over a shower for a friend.
Advise is welcome :)