Tajuk bunyi macam unik je kan? Hehe..
“Ohana means family”
Satu dialog dalam cerita kartun Lilo&Stitch yang
selalu
terngiang-ngiang kat cuping telinga saya ni.
Rupanya Ohana bermaksud family atau keluarga dalam bahasa
orang Hawaii.
Tahukah anda bahawa orang Hawaii ada
banyak persamaan dengan
bangsa melayu?
Pernah korang dengar orang puteh or mat salleh melatah tak? Tak
kan? Melatah dalam bahasa inggeris pon mcm tak pernah dengar pun. Tapi Cuma bangsa kita dan orang Hawaii je
yang melatah ni. Dan ada research shows that kite dengan orang Hawaiian ni
sebenarnya related. Ada bau-bau baceng eh bacang gituee. Sebab kalau kite
tengok muka Hawaiian ada macam kemelayuan sikit kan? Haa.. dan2 la sebab aku
minat The Rock la cakap cmtu ;p Wahh.. interesting kan? Ni pon my lecturer yang
bagitahu. Betul ke tidak taktaulah. hehe
Eh, apa yang aku melalut ni? Haiya suka sangat hanyut ntah
kemana je cerita. Ok ok berbalik kepada tajuk asal pasal family. Bila bercakap
je pasal family ofcoz la it instantly became a personal affair. Sebab keluarga
ni very personal. Peribadi. Sesuatu yang sulit dan rapat dengan kita.
Sebab tu kadang-kadang ada orang tu bila dah betul-betul
rapat with a person baru dia ready nak introduce that person to his or her
whole family. Tapi ada je yang jenis family open dan sempoi boleh je nak huha
huha kan. For me, family is an important part of my life. I treasure the value
of family. Walau kadang-kadang tak nampak sangat but truly i care about them.
Being a blogger ni means u share your personal experiences
with your readers but at some point i would like to keep something for myself. Banyak
benda sebenarnya yang saya tak expose so that i could at least protect my
family from their privacy life being violated.
:: Raya 2010 with family and relatives ::
Kadang-kadang bila orang dah tau pasal kita, dah stalk
habis-habis pasal diri kita diorang nak jadi inspector pulak nak siasat
background family la macam-macam lah. These people sometimes don’t know when to
stop. Stalk sana sini habis semua ahli keluarga kita dia nak follow their
updates. Kalau tak mendatangkan masalah takpe. Ni lain pulak jadinya. Pantang slack
je kena hentam. Macam diorang tu malaikat.
Makes me wonder, sempurna sangat ke
hidup mereka ni ek?
Bila kita tak expose in details, diorang make extremely stupid
and false accusations. Confident je buat statement and assume itu ini about my
family. Konon dah tau and kenal sangat kami. Haktuiii la. Sebut nama pon tak
betul lagi nak mengaku rapat dengan family kami. Urghh.. sorry we don’t be
friend with those kind of busybody-put-their-nose-on-other-ppl’s-business-punya-orang.
Seronok ek buat cerita dan fitnah-fitnah orang ni? Self satisfaction
ek? Nampak sangat the symptoms of ppl with lack of self-belonging. Kesian kesian..
One of the most stupidest (haaa..dah most tu stupidest
lagi..lantaklah grammar kelaut pun sbab ni memang dah kes abnormal pon)thing
among the rumors i heard was my mum hidup bermadu. Hahaha.. hahh. Kah kahkah
proott..Memang tergelak guling guling sampai terkentut la aku dengar cite ni.
Let me make it clear okay? My mother TAK PERNAH. never Ever EVER (mcm lagu taylor swift tu) dimadukan
macam yang korang heboh-heboh kan tu. She is single dan tak pernah dimadukan
oleh suaminya. Titik!
:: from my instagram ::
My parents divorced sooo long time ago. About 12 years ago
when i was around 11 years old. Sebab penceraian? simply kerana tiada jodoh. Diorang
cerai pon secara damai. Tak payahlah korang nak pung pang pung pang jadikan isu
pasal diorang bercerai sebab dah memang tertulis di luh Mahfuz dah jodoh mereka
sampai situ je. Both of them were cool about it. So why weren’t you? Korang pun
belum tahu lagi korang punya takdir, jodoh, pertemuan, ajal dan maut semua
macam mana kan?
:: Raya 2012 ::
My dad married my step mum 4 years ago. I am blessed with two adorable
baby sisters, Hana and Marissa from their marriage. I call her Mama. She’s a
cool step mum and we don’t have any problem living together under the same
roof. Memang saya jarang post gambar my Mama ni sebab i still want to protect
her privacy and everyday personal life. I don’t want her to get affected from
anything that may come from my blog.
:: Sis wedding ::
My biological mum, Mak is a single mother for 12years. She’s
an indeed the strongest and independent women i have even known in my entire
life. Raising us up especially me who have been staying with her since zaman
sekolah lagi sampailah dah besar panjang ni. Even bila my dad remarried baru
kitorang start moving in with my dad, saya dan mak still close as usual.
:: first present i gave Mak that i bought with my own money::
She can
be considered as my best friend who knows all my secrets, comforts me every
time im down with something. She’s definitely my backbone-my strength. Some people
even said that i inherit her strong heart and perseverance. Alhamdulillah i
believe she is also the reason how im still standing strong until today.
:: On my diploma graduation day 2012 ::
I paling pantang kalau sesiapa sentuh, cuit or hurt my mum
verbally or physically(sofar xpnh lg). Saya seorang yang sangat penyabar dan
bukan pemarah. Baran jauh sekali. Tapi kalau who ever tinggi suara or kurang
ajar with my mum memang it gets on my nerves la sebab saya sendiri tak pernah
tinggi suara dengan dia let alone kurang ajar. That’s why pernah sampai tahap i
lost my patience and exploded bila ada this mamat kurang ajar nak tinggi suara
tengking ngan my mum. Kalau dulu nak tengking2 hentak2 saya, i still can take
but if it’s my mum u’re talking about, no way hozeyy.. Tak kesah la dia nak
mengaku ke nak nafikan yang penting, saya,Mak dan Allah tahu the truth.
Even mak selalu nasihatkan “sabar je. Allah sentiasa bersama orang-orang yang sabar. Insyallah akan
ada hikmah dan balasan dikemudian hari. Ya kena yakin dengan Qada’ dan Qada. Doa
je banyak-banyak, doa orang teraniaya diangkat darjatnya.”
Nasiblah mak saya seorang yang penyabar. Banyak sangat
dugaan yang kami terpaksa tempuh bersama. Just like what happened to HanisZalikha and her mother dimana orang kutuk mak dia tak pandai jaga anak la itu
lah ini lah. Heyy.. who are you to point out people’s way of nurturing and
parenting?
Aduii.. sabar Elia. Istighfar banyak-banyak. Astaghfirullahalazim...
Bukan nak meluahkan kemarahan cuma im trying to set things
straight. Lepas ni kalau ada lagi dengar bunyi-bunyi sumbang tu taktau lah apa
lagi aku nak buat. Cuma mampu berdoa diorang ni bertaubatlah sebelum terlambat.
Ingatllah, dosa dengan Allah kita boleh minta ampun dengan Dia, dosa sesama
manusia hanya orang itu yang mampu memaafkannya. Semoga kita semua
diberkati dan dirahmati.
Salam sejahtera dan selamat beramal ~!