I heard Dr Harry say that the way you train a cat affects how she will turn out. I proved this with Mogs 3 who died of cancer and was adorable. Until she was sick she barely had a fault ....apart from the odd scratch in the wrong place. She never did bond with her scratching post.
I got her at four weeks of age, so she was fully trained by me.....her Mum had been killed. Council workers saved the tiny kittens and the Vets further saved them.
But the current Ms Mogs4th, had a slightly later start with me...she had been taken home one night by one lady and was rejected......how could you??? So we were told she was needy. She was. She was also arboreal and super intelligent but would suckle me whenever she could and still tries at times at night. I have to be careful as she suckles my arm that she is now not near scars....having trained her not to suckle in her first desired spot.
I had a basket in the laundry for the last two madams and both studiously ignored it.
So I felt that access to the back door was more important and moved it to the sliding door to take out to the shed and concede defeat.
Then I noticed the bedding was disturbed.
I watched.
I noticed a black furry body in my unused cat basket.
The basket is not the problem.
The location of the basket in a laundry with a door that was not glass was the problem.
I do intend to get a new door for the laundry one day and am intending to get mainly glass as the view to the garden on the narrow side of the house is worth the view and there is a screen security door as well as a 6' fence.
So the problem is solved.....the basket is being used.....and the door I use more often is now the one semi blocked. She has compromised with it pushed to one side.
A breeder told me that only female cats have white spots on their nose!!
She also said her head was oriental shaped....and I muttered a few things about her other odd behaviors
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Tonight we have been playing catch the cat scratch the newly covered arm chair.....and see how far the water can squirt. Unfortunately it involves me getting up and taking action. Threats, alas are worthless.