Why culture matters in dementia care

Last month saw the launch of the Dementia Action Alliance’s (DAA) ‘From Seldom Heard to Seen and Heard’ Campaign. The campaign focuses on people living with dementia and their families from six communities who are often marginalised from services and support: Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender + (LGBT), Black, Asian and Minority Ethnic (BAME), Young onset dementia, The prison population, People living in rural communities and People with learning disabilities.

I’m a national member of the DAA, and proud to have worked with the team in developing this campaign, mostly by utilizing my extensive knowledge and experience of working with people who have a learning disability and dementia. For this blog post, however, I want to think about the BAME population, and with Brexit on the horizon, anyone born outside of the UK who is now ageing in the UK and living with dementia.

When I contributed to the Jessica Kingsley book ‘Culture, Dementia and Ethnicity’ I wrote about my experiences of my dad’s relationship with his Filipino key worker. Many others from BAME backgrounds wrote about their own experiences, some hugely challenging due to cultural differences, the expectations and assumptions that are made by different communities, and the sheer dearth of culturally-appropriate services.

In my dad’s 9 years in care homes, I only ever met one lady who was from a BAME background. Granted dad was living in the home counties rather than an inner city, but with a significant Asian population in the local town, it struck me as strange that more people with Indian or Pakistani heritage didn’t live there too, particularly as the staff team was very multicultural.

Of course when I began the work I do now, I heard all those stereotyped viewpoints that Asian families ‘look after their own’ - indeed, just nine days after I began my D4Dementia blog, I read a blog published on The Age Page by guest blogger Manjit Nijjar, recalling her experiences as a carer to her father. The blog completely drew me in as Manjit described the struggles she faced, and the prevalence of the notion that Asian families ‘look after their own’.

Keeping health problems ‘behind closed doors’ and ‘looking after your own’ are viewpoints that make dangerous assumptions that a family is able to cope – Manjit wasn’t coping, and in the 5+ years since her blog was published, I’m sure many other carers from BAME backgrounds have had similar experiences. Diagnosis rates within BAME communities don’t reflect the likely prevalence in the population, suggesting that many families either don’t want to seek help when they notice changes in a loved one’s health, or are believing stigmatised viewpoints about dementia ‘madness’ which leave them too ashamed to seek help.

Even with a large extended family, it isn’t a given that family carers will have the skills and abilities to care for a loved one with dementia, and if they aren’t accessing mainstream services, they may never receive any professional support. Package all of that up together and you are likely to find significant numbers of isolated BAME families struggling to cope against pressure from their community to just soldier on, despite limited or non-existent knowledge of dementia.

Then, of course, there are the challenges faced by the services people from BAME backgrounds do access. From the time I spent with the Asian lady in my dad’s care home, it was clear staff had little understanding of how to support her. She’d reverted to her childhood language that few people (including her family) understood, was disorientated in an unfamiliar, very British-style environment, and attitudes to supporting her cultural needs around food (Halal) were at times shocking.

We know that dementia care for those born in this country has many challenges. For those born overseas, however, whose early memories and emotions are attached to a different land, living in another culture greatly reduces the chances of living well unless services are very mindful of the needs of those individuals and their families, most notably:

Language: As with the Asian lady in my dad’s care home, many people from BAME backgrounds who develop dementia may revert to using a language they learnt in their childhood. As with all language challenges, however, it may not be a simple case of using different words - the words, letters and sounds can become muddled, no matter what the language is that the person is trying to communicate in. Looking beyond verbal communication to aspects like body language and gestures may be more helpful than trying to decipher words and phrases.

Environment: One of the most powerful recent testimonies I’ve heard regarding supporting a person from a BAME background who is living with dementia came on a BBC Radio 5 Live phone-in programme last month (sadly no longer available on iPlayer), where a gentleman described supporting his father during his years with dementia, and a particularly poignant trip to Pakistan to enable his father to see family and friends he’d grown up with and visit places that were important to him. He described his father’s joy, and listening to his story it was clear that for those few short weeks his father truly felt he’d returned home - he was living well.

The son went on to describe the great comfort those memories give him now his father has died, and although I’m not suggesting families or care providers can all facilitate holidays to homelands for every BAME person who is living with dementia, there is some really important learning here about recreating familiar environments (including colours and fabrics, and sensory elements like smells and sounds) maintaining connections with family members and friends (through technology like Skype), and really investing time and effort in life story work.

Customs: These can be anything, from religious practices to the way the person structures their day. Some elements, like prayer time, may be very important, and there may be sacred elements to the person’s life, and their end-of-life wishes, that need to be understood and carefully adhered to.

Preferences: Again, the spectrum here is huge, anything from the way the person dresses to the food they eat, the occupations and activities they wish to take part in, and potentially who they want to spend their time with. Whilst we may actively encourage multicultural living, it isn’t something everyone feels comfortable with, particularly when single men and women are mixing together in communal areas.

When thinking about both customs and preferences, it’s important to remember that for every custom or preference that is vital to one individual, another person living with dementia may wish to discard some or all of these through their own choice. Being non-judgmental and mindful of choice and control is vital in supporting the person effectively. Just because a person has dementia it doesn’t make their choices, whatever they may be, any less relevant.

If all health and care services can become more culturally aware, and in turn reap the benefits of that (both for the BAME individuals they support and for everyone else though learning about and celebrating other cultures) it will represent a really important step in improving the lives of people from BAME backgrounds who are living with dementia and their families.

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Keep the faith

One of the first things to become bypassed in someone’s life as their dementia progresses and they become more reliant on social care can be their faith, beliefs or spirituality. This is often as a result of professionals caring for them feeling very uncomfortable about anything religious or spiritual and dismissing it, actions that echo the words of a famous adviser to a former UK Prime Minister who once said, “We don’t do God”.

It is, however, vital to recognise that many people actively want to ‘do God’ or indeed follow any other religion or belief structure, and it is absolutely their right to do so. This is particularly true when someone’s health deteriorates, or they have been diagnosed with a terminal illness. In those times many people draw strength from their faith, and no one should deny them that or say that they cannot, least of all those who are charged with their care.

Whilst you can exercise your right to follow your chosen path of belief or spirituality in almost every situation life can throw at you, living with dementia has a tendency to gradually remove that autonomy. If you actively practice a faith, you will then potentially need support to fulfil that calling in your life, and understanding from those around you who may come from different backgrounds and cultures.

I have seen both the positive and negative approaches to supporting someone who is living with dementia within the context of their religious beliefs. The positives were largely in relation to my father, who received regular pastoral support, particularly during the last few years of his life and during his end-of-life. This was largely due to good fortune, however, as another relative in his care home happened to be a practicing clergyman who visited his mother daily, and was happy to provide pastoral support in his professional capacity to anyone else in the home. There were also monthly services that residents could attend, and the hymn singing was always a particular favourite with dad.

Sadly a Muslim lady had a far more negative experience when she moved into the home. Despite requiring a strict Halal diet, some carers were caught feeding this lady non-Halal meat. When these carers were questioned about the food, they said that this lady’s dementia was so severe she wouldn’t know what she was being given, and had been willing to eat it so it made no difference. Moreover, with the exception of one carer who was from the same cultural background as this lady, no others were able to correctly assist her to dress in a manner befitting her cultural and religious heritage.

Clearly the experiences this lady had did not represent good care, but they do perhaps give an insight into how easy it is considered to be to bypass that vital role of supporting someone to maintain their religious and cultural beliefs. Often a person with dementia cannot fight back against this, demand better or indeed remove themselves from what has to be considered a form of abuse, hence why we need a far greater emphasis on these elements of care.

Advocacy can help, as I discussed here, but fundamentally we need to ensure that care in the UK exists within the context of being person-centred, and doesn’t take the ‘easy’ route of ignoring someone’s faith or beliefs. Exploring the whole person means looking not just at the physical things like possessions and tangible choices that are often much easier to acknowledge, but also accounting for the things that don’t exist in a physical form and represent the spiritual.

For anyone who has a faith or belief structure, that spiritual side of their life is often far more important than the physical things that they are surrounded with. Yes a cross, beads, items of clothing or symbols associated with particular customs or festivals can bring incredible comfort, familiarity, joy and peace, and hymns, songs, chants and readings can provide fantastic therapy, but it will often be about the unspoken or otherwise untouchable things that their faith brings them that lie at the heart of their life.

Care plans include the opportunity to describe someone’s religion, but as we all know these are documents that are largely completed purely for regulatory purposes. To be blunt, questions about my dad’s religious beliefs were directly linked to the questions about the sort of funeral he would want when the time came. For the most part, the pastoral care that my dad had was due to the arrangements we made as a family, which begs the question, what happens to everyone else?

Routinely ignoring the spiritual needs of people with dementia is never going to represent good care. Where someone has a faith that they have previously actively pursued and wish to continue with, they must be supported to do that whether they are living in their own home and relying on regular visits from a faith leader or support to attend an act of worship, or are living in a care home, whose remit as a caring community should always include opportunities for regular worship and one-to-one pastoral care. Without these structures, there is a danger that the only spiritual support someone with dementia experiences will come from a hospital chaplain at a point of severe crisis, if indeed they have any support at all.

Engaging faith leaders in increasing their knowledge and understanding of dementia is an important step to ensuring that everyone who needs their support has it, but without social care embracing this key aspect of many people’s lives appropriate pastoral care for all will still be a long way off. Care is not about our own personal views; it’s about walking into someone else’s world and embracing everything about them, be it seen or unseen, and ensuring that all who want to have the opportunity to keep their faith alive can do so.

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